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S is for Self
How is the COVID-19 pandemic crisis affecting you? Are you able to work from home, or are you essential personnel who must go in to work, or are you unable to work? Consider things you can do to take care of your mental health during this time. Pick some activity, like keeping a journal, and try to work on it every day for 14 days (a quarantine period). Does this repetition of activity help you?
We work in IT, so we've been working from home during all this. Funny thing is, we were already planning to work from home most of this month, because we are also preparing to move. It's weird trying to move during this time, because you have to double-check everything is open & running, and plan a lot more time to get things done because all the utilities and everything are over-worked. Also, we can't plan to have as much help from friends. The other thing is, M is the Office Manager for her work, so she's been responsible to make decisions about everyone staying home from the office and giving people information since the beginning of it. And being a Scout Troop Leader, I've had to make some of those decisions for the Troop, with the other leaders.
So we don't really journal, and with switching around, I go days between being out. But I can look back on our Facebook and share some of our daily thoughts about this mess - I'll get at least 14 entries on various days. I'm starting with March 6, because that's when we were already planning on being at home for moving. So that kind of started our own Social Distancing for all this, unintentionally. And mostly, it starts with memes. Because you have to laugh to keep sane.
3/7 - meme: "Just a warning: next week starts with changing the clocks, moves to a full moon, and ends with a Friday the 13th... Good luck people! ps: Don't forget to wash your hands." Of course, all of this mess also started with Super Tuesday voting and a tornado, too. Oh, and Boss lost his job a couple of weeks prior. And our A/C went out. It was a really rough start, but at the time, we really thought that just washing our hands was going to be enough.
3/9 - meme: "the scariest thing about COVID-19 is that it looks like a JIRA ticket" We use JIRA, a ticketing system, at M's work, so this was pretty funny to start off with. We set up a channel in our work Slack just to discuss the coronavirus information. We started getting information things from the building and from corporate. Mostly, they said 'wash your hands, and stay home if you have symptoms.' This is when it started actually hitting Nashville.
3/11 - My birthday, and Kiara's, too. We went out to eat with Boss, Sarah, and M's daughter. That would turn out to be one of our last family dinners out that felt normal.
3/12 - meme: Picard sitting in his command chair, tensely gripping the armrests... "How it feels waking up every morning in 2020... DAMAGE REPORT" We were really starting to get the feeling that things were going to get serious at this point. Governor Lee signed an Emergency Declaration for Tennessee, and Vanderbilt set up their first screening area. We started talking about Social Distancing and Flattening the Curve. Schools in Tennessee started closing.
3/13 - meme: Dolores Umbridge sitting behind a desk... "If Coronovirus was a person... All Student Organisations, Societies, Teams, Groups, and Clubs are henceforth disbanded. All Quidditch matches are hereby cancelled. Boys and girls are not permitted to be within 8 inches of each other." All the events for March were cancelled, and April events were starting to be cancelled or postponed, too. The buying frenzy hit all the grocery stores.
3/16 - meme: "Ireland has closed the pubs 36 hours before St. Patricks Day. If that doesn't impress upon you the seriousness of coronavirus, nothing will." One of M's coworkers went to a Lego event, where someone tested positive for the virus. So he started his quarantine (and later cleared it with no symptoms). The next day, Lego stores worldwide closed for the duration. Opry Mills mall also closed.
3/18 - meme: "Try this perspective shift. Instead of seeing 'social distancing' and travel bans as panic, try seeing them as acts of mass cooperation intended to protect the collective whole. This plan is not about individuals going into hiding. It's a global deep breath... an agreement between humans around the planet to be still. Be still, in hopes that the biggest wave can pass without engulfing too many of the vulnerable amongst us." We had to go into the office to print some stuff and check mail and stuff. It was eerie, with little traffic, and almost nobody in the building. The few there wouldn't meet each others' eyes. And because of working from home so much, we realized we were starting to lose track of time. We got off by a whole week on how much time was left before the move. Mayor Cooper declared a State of Emergency for Davidson County.
3/19 - We started seeing information about how to get financial and other help for those impacted (you know, everyone), and sharing those both on Facebook and in our work Slack, or to individuals. Unfortunately, most of those don't apply to us, as Boss lost his job before the virus hit, and we made too much money last year to qualify for other things.
3/20 - meme: "I've seen several people making jokes about how much it sucks to quarantine with your significant other and I... do not relate? I married someone that I LIKE" - We've been home with Boss this whole time, and Sarah's here most of the time (she has to go in to work to feed horses, and her apartment to feed cats). As it turns out, we're really enjoying each others' company, and not that much missing the crowds of people. Tax Day is officially moved to July 15, which eases our minds. Boss is out of work and we're gonna owe a big chunk.
3/21 - meme: "Have we tried turning 2020 off and back on again?... We tried that. It shorted out and set fire to Australia... Now we have a virus." Yep, can't forget that 2020 started with a continent on fire and almost World War III. Yuck.
3/22 - Metro issued the Safer At Home Order for Davidson County and the governor put out the order telling restaurants to shift to take-out and delivery only, among other things. We need to stay home... like we've been doing for two weeks already.
3/23 - meme: "Having trouble forcing yourself to stay home?... Shave your eyebrows off." Everyone seems to be getting a little stir-crazy, if only because we're officially under orders to stay home now. M posted: "You know, how companies have responded to the coronovirus is going to be available information that will color how we view companies for years to come. Kroger is giving their employees 'hazard pay' bonuses, Aldi is giving everyone extra money. Gamestop is ordering their employees to risk arrest. Hobby Lobby is encouraging managers to reduce employee hours to save them money. We, the people, are watching how companies respond to this. And it may not impact companies right now, but they'll feel the repercussions of their actions for years down the road..." 3/24 - Waffle House starts closing locations (365 then, over 400 now). An earlier meme said something to the effect of "I'll worry when Waffle House closes." And now they have more sites closed than they've ever had in response to anything. It's serious, ya'll. 3/25 - We start hearing rumors of a stimulus package in Congress. Sounds like we made too much last year (when Boss had a job) to qualify for the whole thing, but maybe we'll get some of it.
3/27 - meme: "this is like the worst group project ever. so many people are doing the work and following the rules but there are still some who are just fucking off outside and it's like BRO WE ARE BEING GRADED AS A GROUP PLEASE. STAY. THE. FUCK. HOME." Sage and I created this badge to earn. Might as well have some positive out of this mess. (hey, that's 15 entries)
We work in IT, so we've been working from home during all this. Funny thing is, we were already planning to work from home most of this month, because we are also preparing to move. It's weird trying to move during this time, because you have to double-check everything is open & running, and plan a lot more time to get things done because all the utilities and everything are over-worked. Also, we can't plan to have as much help from friends. The other thing is, M is the Office Manager for her work, so she's been responsible to make decisions about everyone staying home from the office and giving people information since the beginning of it. And being a Scout Troop Leader, I've had to make some of those decisions for the Troop, with the other leaders.
So we don't really journal, and with switching around, I go days between being out. But I can look back on our Facebook and share some of our daily thoughts about this mess - I'll get at least 14 entries on various days. I'm starting with March 6, because that's when we were already planning on being at home for moving. So that kind of started our own Social Distancing for all this, unintentionally. And mostly, it starts with memes. Because you have to laugh to keep sane.
3/7 - meme: "Just a warning: next week starts with changing the clocks, moves to a full moon, and ends with a Friday the 13th... Good luck people! ps: Don't forget to wash your hands." Of course, all of this mess also started with Super Tuesday voting and a tornado, too. Oh, and Boss lost his job a couple of weeks prior. And our A/C went out. It was a really rough start, but at the time, we really thought that just washing our hands was going to be enough.
3/9 - meme: "the scariest thing about COVID-19 is that it looks like a JIRA ticket" We use JIRA, a ticketing system, at M's work, so this was pretty funny to start off with. We set up a channel in our work Slack just to discuss the coronavirus information. We started getting information things from the building and from corporate. Mostly, they said 'wash your hands, and stay home if you have symptoms.' This is when it started actually hitting Nashville.
3/11 - My birthday, and Kiara's, too. We went out to eat with Boss, Sarah, and M's daughter. That would turn out to be one of our last family dinners out that felt normal.
3/12 - meme: Picard sitting in his command chair, tensely gripping the armrests... "How it feels waking up every morning in 2020... DAMAGE REPORT" We were really starting to get the feeling that things were going to get serious at this point. Governor Lee signed an Emergency Declaration for Tennessee, and Vanderbilt set up their first screening area. We started talking about Social Distancing and Flattening the Curve. Schools in Tennessee started closing.
3/13 - meme: Dolores Umbridge sitting behind a desk... "If Coronovirus was a person... All Student Organisations, Societies, Teams, Groups, and Clubs are henceforth disbanded. All Quidditch matches are hereby cancelled. Boys and girls are not permitted to be within 8 inches of each other." All the events for March were cancelled, and April events were starting to be cancelled or postponed, too. The buying frenzy hit all the grocery stores.
3/16 - meme: "Ireland has closed the pubs 36 hours before St. Patricks Day. If that doesn't impress upon you the seriousness of coronavirus, nothing will." One of M's coworkers went to a Lego event, where someone tested positive for the virus. So he started his quarantine (and later cleared it with no symptoms). The next day, Lego stores worldwide closed for the duration. Opry Mills mall also closed.
3/18 - meme: "Try this perspective shift. Instead of seeing 'social distancing' and travel bans as panic, try seeing them as acts of mass cooperation intended to protect the collective whole. This plan is not about individuals going into hiding. It's a global deep breath... an agreement between humans around the planet to be still. Be still, in hopes that the biggest wave can pass without engulfing too many of the vulnerable amongst us." We had to go into the office to print some stuff and check mail and stuff. It was eerie, with little traffic, and almost nobody in the building. The few there wouldn't meet each others' eyes. And because of working from home so much, we realized we were starting to lose track of time. We got off by a whole week on how much time was left before the move. Mayor Cooper declared a State of Emergency for Davidson County.
3/19 - We started seeing information about how to get financial and other help for those impacted (you know, everyone), and sharing those both on Facebook and in our work Slack, or to individuals. Unfortunately, most of those don't apply to us, as Boss lost his job before the virus hit, and we made too much money last year to qualify for other things.
3/20 - meme: "I've seen several people making jokes about how much it sucks to quarantine with your significant other and I... do not relate? I married someone that I LIKE" - We've been home with Boss this whole time, and Sarah's here most of the time (she has to go in to work to feed horses, and her apartment to feed cats). As it turns out, we're really enjoying each others' company, and not that much missing the crowds of people. Tax Day is officially moved to July 15, which eases our minds. Boss is out of work and we're gonna owe a big chunk.
3/21 - meme: "Have we tried turning 2020 off and back on again?... We tried that. It shorted out and set fire to Australia... Now we have a virus." Yep, can't forget that 2020 started with a continent on fire and almost World War III. Yuck.
3/22 - Metro issued the Safer At Home Order for Davidson County and the governor put out the order telling restaurants to shift to take-out and delivery only, among other things. We need to stay home... like we've been doing for two weeks already.
3/23 - meme: "Having trouble forcing yourself to stay home?... Shave your eyebrows off." Everyone seems to be getting a little stir-crazy, if only because we're officially under orders to stay home now. M posted: "You know, how companies have responded to the coronovirus is going to be available information that will color how we view companies for years to come. Kroger is giving their employees 'hazard pay' bonuses, Aldi is giving everyone extra money. Gamestop is ordering their employees to risk arrest. Hobby Lobby is encouraging managers to reduce employee hours to save them money. We, the people, are watching how companies respond to this. And it may not impact companies right now, but they'll feel the repercussions of their actions for years down the road..." 3/24 - Waffle House starts closing locations (365 then, over 400 now). An earlier meme said something to the effect of "I'll worry when Waffle House closes." And now they have more sites closed than they've ever had in response to anything. It's serious, ya'll. 3/25 - We start hearing rumors of a stimulus package in Congress. Sounds like we made too much last year (when Boss had a job) to qualify for the whole thing, but maybe we'll get some of it.
3/27 - meme: "this is like the worst group project ever. so many people are doing the work and following the rules but there are still some who are just fucking off outside and it's like BRO WE ARE BEING GRADED AS A GROUP PLEASE. STAY. THE. FUCK. HOME." Sage and I created this badge to earn. Might as well have some positive out of this mess. (hey, that's 15 entries)
C is for Create
Pick at least one other Little Scouts Patch or Badge you want to work on while you have some extra time. Or you can create a lyrics poster for washing your hands. You can use 20 seconds of an existing song or come up with your own song lyrics. (One option to create the poster is using https://washyourlyrics.com/) Print it out and use it to help you practice good hygiene.
We'll probably work on a couple of patches, but we've already packed the printer, which we'd like to have for printing the patch sheets. However, we don't really need to print.
M's also running this drama club thing with a show planned for October, so we made a lyrics poster with the lines she needs to learn for one of her pieces. https://drive.google.com/open?id=1rXbSagedOBDe56vBGLEBTI-p3exB7zGc
We'll probably work on a couple of patches, but we've already packed the printer, which we'd like to have for printing the patch sheets. However, we don't really need to print.
M's also running this drama club thing with a show planned for October, so we made a lyrics poster with the lines she needs to learn for one of her pieces. https://drive.google.com/open?id=1rXbSagedOBDe56vBGLEBTI-p3exB7zGc
O is for Outreach
How can you help people in your community? Can you make masks for medical professionals? Can you donate to nonprofits who are providing support for those in need? Reach out to friends and family regularly to check in and make sure they are okay - not just for their physical health, but also for their mental health. Pay attention to who reaches out to check on you, too. When you do have to go out (to the grocery store, etc.), be a good example to others - thank those that are working, and be extra patient.
We made sure to share 'how to get help' information with people over Facebook or Slack. For instance:
We've been trying to call one person a day - M's daughter, M's mom, Preston. They've all been checking on us, too. And we're home with Sarah and Boss. Of course, there's lots of checking in on Facebook and Slack with family and friends.
When we're getting takeout food or going to the grocery store, we've been being sure to always say thank you to workers and to tip well where that's possible, too.
We made sure to share 'how to get help' information with people over Facebook or Slack. For instance:
- United Way has a COVID-19 Community Economic Relief Fund. They will help with bills, rent, and food. You can call 1-866-211-9966 and provide zip code and will be given a list of local agencies to provide assistance.
- Metro utilities have all suspended cutoffs and disconnects until further notice.
- CovidHelpNashville offers to get groceries, medicines, or run other errands for those who are high-risk for COVID-19 at 615-447-8260 or covidhelpnashville@gmail.com
- TDHS has financial aid available for some families that lost employment due to COVID-19. Their cutoff is 3/11 as the start of all the mess: https://www.tn.gov/humanservices/news/2020/3/25/financial-aid-available-for-certain-families-that-lost-employment-due-to-covid-19.html
We've been trying to call one person a day - M's daughter, M's mom, Preston. They've all been checking on us, too. And we're home with Sarah and Boss. Of course, there's lots of checking in on Facebook and Slack with family and friends.
When we're getting takeout food or going to the grocery store, we've been being sure to always say thank you to workers and to tip well where that's possible, too.
U is for Understanding
Research about the COVID-19 virus, using reputable sources with scientific facts. Educate yourself about the Stay at Home policies that are being put into place around the country. Learn about how the Stay at Home policies work with a virus of this nature to ‘flatten the curve’. Follow these policies as much as you can to keep yourself and others healthy.
This is one of the most helpful sites I've found to teach about flattening the curve. It gives simulations on what it looks like when there is less and more social distancing (or none): https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/world/corona-simulator/
This page has statistics daily on coronavirus reported cases, deaths, and recoveries around the world. https://coronawiki.org/ I find it better not to check these things too often, for our mental health.
This YouTube video talks about what the symptoms look like for various cases. I think it was well-done, informative without being alarmist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOJqHPfG7pA&feature=youtu.be
The Alternative Business Models Order has some wide-reaching effects - https://www.tn.gov/governor/news/2020/3/22/gov--bill-lee-signs-executive-order-mandating-alternative-business-models-for-restaurants-and-gyms--lifts-alcohol-regulations.html
This article was interesting about how the pandemic is leading to improved air quality and good effects on the environment. https://www.iflscience.com/environment/the-unexpected-impact-of-a-pandemic-on-the-environment-/
Metro Public Health Department has an Information Hotline at 615-862-777
This is one of the most helpful sites I've found to teach about flattening the curve. It gives simulations on what it looks like when there is less and more social distancing (or none): https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/world/corona-simulator/
This page has statistics daily on coronavirus reported cases, deaths, and recoveries around the world. https://coronawiki.org/ I find it better not to check these things too often, for our mental health.
This YouTube video talks about what the symptoms look like for various cases. I think it was well-done, informative without being alarmist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOJqHPfG7pA&feature=youtu.be
The Alternative Business Models Order has some wide-reaching effects - https://www.tn.gov/governor/news/2020/3/22/gov--bill-lee-signs-executive-order-mandating-alternative-business-models-for-restaurants-and-gyms--lifts-alcohol-regulations.html
This article was interesting about how the pandemic is leading to improved air quality and good effects on the environment. https://www.iflscience.com/environment/the-unexpected-impact-of-a-pandemic-on-the-environment-/
Metro Public Health Department has an Information Hotline at 615-862-777
T is for Teach
Take this time to learn or teach a new skill. Maybe you can create a how-to video to share, or watch how-to videos to learn something new. Can you lead or attend a virtual meeting, class, or phone call using Zoom, Webex, Slack, or other video conferencing programs?
M's work already used Slack, and so does the Little Scout Troop Leadership, and M's drama club. Slack has a video-call feature that she's learned to use this month. We found out that our home laptop didn't work on the audio or video for that, and figured out how to fix the video, but not the audio. So we can either use the phone for audio, or use the work computer for video calls. On 3/29, M was supposed to have a read-through for her drama group, and it's now going to be a video conference. So that's a new thing
M's work already used Slack, and so does the Little Scout Troop Leadership, and M's drama club. Slack has a video-call feature that she's learned to use this month. We found out that our home laptop didn't work on the audio or video for that, and figured out how to fix the video, but not the audio. So we can either use the phone for audio, or use the work computer for video calls. On 3/29, M was supposed to have a read-through for her drama group, and it's now going to be a video conference. So that's a new thing